I spend far too much time complaining about things I cannot control. I spend a great deal of time driving for our ministry. I find myself complaining about traffic jams … what a waste of time! My complaining has never made cars move off the ramps and out of my way! I complain about people driving in the passing lane …

There were two times in my life that these words were very obvious to me. The first that comes to mind was the time I was facing one of the most difficult times of my life, and a friend pulled up to my house and hugged me. He told me that he didn’t know what to say, but that he …